Fresh Hope for Living Free and Recovery Principles
The assumption of these tenets is that someone has committed their lives to the Lord.
Tenet #1: (Deal with your issues and addictions, or they will continue to deal with you.)
I have unresolved emotional and spiritual issues and addictions in my life that have led me to this point. If I don’t deal with these issues and addictions they will continue to deal with me; holding me back and possibly destroy my life, hurting the people I love and never becoming who I am in Christ. Therefore, I choose to do whatever it takes to work through my issues and overcome my addictions so that I might become my authentic self in the and through the work of the Lord’s Holy Spirit within me.
“I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:13 (NIV)
Tenet #2: (Live in Jesus’ forgiveness. Take responsibility for hurt and pain caused to others and making amends for it.)
My emotional issues and addictions have not only affected my life but also the lives of those I love and victims of my crime. Therefore, I have asked for the Lord to forgive me and I live in his forgiveness. And I choose to take full responsibility for the pain I have caused and am committed to making amends with those whom I have hurt.
“So let’s pursue those things which bring peace and which are good for each other.” Romans 14:19 (God’s Word Translation, 1995)
Tenet #3: (Stop reacting to life. But, live out life in faith and assurance of God’s love.)
Life has been living me instead of me living life out the fullness of God’s plan for my life, which has led to no direction or even the wrong direction in my life. I’ve been reacting and acting out without out the pain caused by my unresolved emotional and spiritual issues; using addictive behaviors and substances to cover up my pain. While I cannot control what happens “to me” I can control responding to it through faith and trust in the Lord; while I cannot control other people I can control through God’s Spirit within me how I respond to them. Therefore I choose to react to what happens in my life and what others do by living out my faith and trust in God’s plan for my life rather than being driven by my pain.
“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)
Tenet #4: (Hopes and dreams have been crushed- but it’s not too late hopelessness has set in. Choose hope.)
Broken hopes and dreams because of my behavior and toxic thinking have brought me to the point of hopelessness. Without the Lord and a new chance at life, I would have no hope. Therefore, I choose to believe the truth that God specializes in redemption. He is a God of second chances and new beginnings. I have a hope and a future in Him.
” If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” I John 1:9
Tenet #5: (Stinkin’ thinkin’- you need to align your thinking with the Word of God)
Stinkin’ thinkin’ has caused me to feel toxic feelings, which has resulted in my toxic actions. The only way I can change my behavior is to align my thinking and what I believe with the truth of God’s Word. Therefore, I choose to change my thinking by taking captive my thinking and aligning it with what God’s Word says about all things.
“We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” 2 Corinthians 10:5
Tenet #6: (Believing lies- need to replace them with truth.)
Feelings based upon lies that I have believed have caused emotional turmoil for me and have been at the root of my destructive behaviors that are contrary to the truth of God’s Word. Therefore, I choose to get to the root of the lies that I have believed and replace them with God’s truth; knowing that the truth sets me free.
“So He said to the Jews who had believed Him, “If you continue in My word, you are truly My disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31-32
Tenet #7 (Giving back to others is good for them, and it’s good for me)
Through most of my life, I have been a taker. Too often it’s been about me doing what I want when I want. But, because of the Lord giving his all for me, therefore I choose to give my life back to him as a living sacrifice; living for Him and serving Him and others.
“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.” II Corinthians 1:3-5
Our purpose is to encourage one another to choose God’s fresh hope for our daily life and future.
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